Many of my friends are now getting babies, in and out of marriage. I envy them. In fact, I am planning for mine soonest. But why am not yet into it?
First answer is, am not ready for marriage. Secondly, and what am going to focus on today is, am afraid, totally afraid of my mother's child.
What if one day a disagreement occur between me and my baby mama? Today's woman is crafty, you know.
I have reasons to believe that today's woman can never be trusted, she is neither the type to endure through problems like our mothers nor walk away peacefully. They are cunning on their moves and if a break up occurs, they are determined to protect their progeny, fight to death to keep the child while the same time leave you hopeless. Our courts favors them on this.
There are many cases of children's custody related fabrications that they create in order to solitary have the child and the man is left to pump in money periodically through court maintenance order, with limited access to the child. Psychiatrist Richard A. Gardner calls it “parental alienation syndrome” where the mothers brain wash the children to hate their fathers with a goal of 'Total elimination of the father'.
The problem with this is that, down the line, they grow into depressed adults who have low self-esteem and problems trusting others- evident in many instances - and I don't want my kid to end this way and I don't want to be hopeless.
Monday, 3 August 2015
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This is the start. So help me God
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