Friday, 6 September 2013

Another approach to increased bestiality

Another approach to increased bestiality
Kikuyu women have been known for being strong and staunch in their issues. Very different from others who play the submissive characters in their marriages. They play  a very important part in managing and offering most of their assistance to their respective families. This one can be proven by Kikuyu legends such as Wangu wa Makeri . But, maybe this is not what men in central province want, women giving decisions in everything including  when, where and  how to mate. They will not protest by word of mouth but by actions, such as bestiality cases which have flooded our media for weeks.  A keen look will prove that before these bestiality cases there were many cases of men buttering in the province and these cases may prove to be a protest. Societal organizations in central province should look into this and educate the women on lifestyle, how to understand the men and how to maintain marriages. Let us not leave good african teachings on raising families to other economic activities. The latter cannot succeed if one party suffers.

Monday, 8 July 2013

some of our customs need to be maintained


some of our customs need to be maintained

Brian Mala
I do not disagree that most of our customs and beliefs are archaic, but this is simply because modernity has offered solutions to most of our problems. For example, removal of lower teeth by the luo which had its reasoning to allow very seek patients  be medicated when their jaws were intact, has been passed by time because developments have allowed other forms of medication such as injection, therapy and other means which do not involve the mouth.
Despite solutions provided by modernity, there are many areas which modernity cannot solve and this calls for our customs to give solutions. wife inheritance for example: it was meant to console the berieved widow, maintain family relationship because it was always done by a family member, the inheritor also provided financial support to the berieved family. all this is positive.
Many argue that this practice  is dangerous, but let us look into it in a rational approach. a depressed and angry person ca do alot of harm to the society. a depressed widow can hop from one man to another secretly in search for companion which is a natural human need. this hopping is more dangerous compared to if the society could allow her to be inherited and have one man who is always there.

Our forefathers had visions, they knew girls number would exceed boys number, knew circumcision was better for heath. the new inventions I know will never cure death and that is why I advocate for wife inheritance

Wednesday, 3 July 2013

Be on The safer side


One trick of living happily is to live on the safer side. Be scared of ideas and issues that deviate away from the norm. I know it is  all about exploring diversity but do not forget that the wise men said curiosity too kill the cat.
I have learn t the trick, avoiding bad company, being at the right place at the right time. Get me in church when it is time for prayers, in class when it is time for lessons. This has kept me moving on despite the barriers of life

The Kingdom of God Is Within You



At the approach of danger there are always two voices that speak with equal force in the heart of man: one very reasonably tells the man to consider the nature of the danger and the means of avoiding it; the other even more reasonable says that it is too painful and harassing to think of the danger, since it is not a man's power to provide for everything and escape from the general march of events; and that it is therefore better to turn aside from the painful subject till it has come, and to think of what is pleasant. In solitude a man generally yields to the first voice; in society to the second.
LEO TOLSTOY, War and Peace